By Advocate Md. Shah Alam · 2026-10-04 · 11 min read
A parent works in the Gulf, UK or North America, the other parent lives with the child in Bangladesh, and the marriage breaks down. Who gets custody, who can take the child abroad, and what happens if one parent refuses to return the child? This guide is written by <a href="/advocate-md-shah-alam" style="color:var(--gold);font-weight:bold">Advocate Md. Shah Alam</a>, Supreme Court of Bangladesh, for Bangladeshis living in the UK, USA, UAE, Canada and elsewhere. For case-specific help call or WhatsApp the chamber on <a href="tel:01712655546" style="color:var(--gold);font-weight:bold">01712655546</a>.
Custody (hizanat) means physical care of the child. Guardianship means legal authority over the child's person and property. Under Muslim law, the father is the natural guardian, but the mother usually has custody of young children: boys generally until about seven years and girls until puberty, although courts treat these ages as guidelines, not rigid limits. The welfare of the child can override them.
This article is general legal information, not legal advice. Fees, forms and procedures change; confirm current requirements with the relevant office or a qualified advocate before acting.
The Family Court in the district where the child ordinarily lives has jurisdiction. Applications are made under the Guardians and Wards Act 1890, read with the Family Courts Ordinance 1985. The court first tries mediation and reconciliation, then hears evidence from both sides and may order a social inquiry or interview the child.
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A parent abroad can:
If the parent abroad wants custody, the court will ask how the child's schooling, residence and contact with the other parent will be arranged. A realistic plan matters.
Courts can order structured visitation: weekend contact, holiday stays, or video calls. If one parent wants to relocate the child abroad, the court's permission is usually needed when there is a dispute. A parent who removes a child abroad without consent risks a custody order against him or her, and possible criminal action. Bangladesh is not a party to the Hague Convention on child abduction, which makes cross-border enforcement harder, so negotiate and document arrangements early.
This article is general legal information, not legal advice. Fees, forms and procedures change; confirm current requirements with the relevant office or a qualified advocate before acting.
The Family Court decides on the child's welfare; mothers commonly keep young children, but this is not an absolute rule.
If there is a dispute, doing so can lead to court orders and legal action. Get the court's permission or the other parent's written consent.
Yes, through an advocate and Power of Attorney, and by giving evidence by video if allowed.
It is not automatically enforced. A Bangladesh court considers the child's welfare, so you may need to apply there as well.
Yes. The father has a duty to maintain his children, and the court can order it.